First of all, IMMEDIATELY, buy and read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. You absolutely need to have a better understanding of how to find, get and keep a man!
Second of all, DO NOT, tell him you want more than a friendship. It was a mistake for you to be the one to suggest a friends with benefits relationship — and that didn’t work out. The man wants to be the person in the relationship who does the chasing because it will make him feel good about himself and about the relationship and about you!! You’re taking that opportunity away from him at every turn. 😮
You really have to sit back and learn how to be flirtatious and alluring — not the guy in the relationship who does the chasing. It isn’t working, as you can see, so read Think & Date Like A Man (you can also buy it on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon) and use the tips and advice in it to make him yours — but stop the course you’re on right now. It will push him away.
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