I can totally understand being self conscious, especially during sex. But I think that there’s probably a good chance that your boyfriend doesn’t even notice the flaws that you notice about yourself. Don’t feel self conscious about being on top. It’s actually a pretty flattering angle and “fat jiggling” shouldn’t be much of an issue unless you’re moving around like crazy. Start off slow and if you’re moving in a way that makes you feel self conscious, then try moving a different way (unless he really, really likes it of course!). Maybe keeping the lights out or having only very dim light will make you feel a little less self conscious? You’ll get more comfortable after a while, don’t worry. Just relax and enjoy yourself.
