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Re: In love and don’t know how to progress.

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You’re turning into a stalker. 😕 When you say you [i]tried to respect her decision not to date you, but you can’t help yourself….[/i] I got chills. Don’t show up at her house unannounced and uninvited any more. This is clearly crossing a line.

My advice is to try and find someone who is receptive to your lovely gestures. I know you think you’re in love, but you haven’t dated her or really befriended her. This is just infatuation you have with someone you think you know, but don’t. Look elsewhere, and if a woman doesn’t accept a date or even a second date, stop asking and move on.

Dating is a numbers game, and rejection is your friend — if your respect it — because it lets you know you’ve hit a wall and you need to bounce back into the game and find a woman who wants to date you and enjoy your company! If you’ve got more questions, consider reading a book I wrote for men called Date Out of Your League [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It will give you lots of tips and advice to steer you back on the road to dating and winning with women.

I hope that helps!

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