You didn’t mention how long you’ve known him, but it sounds like (at the risk of a bad pun) he showed you his true colors on this vacation. His comment about “you people” was pretty clearly an attempt at prejudice and racism, and his personal feelings about the discrimination of white people by blacks was not just a little “out there” — it was bad behavior.
My advice is that you can do better. I know you said he’s a good man, but I think your judgment is clouded. Prejudice and racism like any other form of discrimination aren’t part of the character of any good man — or woman.There are plenty of men who are white, black, and every color in between who are not prejudiced or racist, and who will treat you better than this one did.
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