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Re: Is he allowed to do this!?

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Of course he’s allowed to do this! 😯 The question is…..why are you in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere? 😕 He’s a grown man who lives with his parents and isn’t financially ready to commit. 🙁 That alone should be enough for you to know he’s not serious about a relationship. However, he’s even given you the neon sign: he actually told you he isn’t ready, and yet — you still continue to ignore him — and now you’re blaming and questioning [b]him [/b]for his behavior 😮 , when instead you should look in the mirror and ask yourself why you’re so involved with a man who isn’t going to commit to you.

Decide what you want in your life. If it’s a relationship with a man, this one isn’t on the same page with you. Unless you change your own behavior, he won’t change his.

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