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I’m sorry you’re hurt, but this kind of hurt can be prevented by choosing more carefully. In my August advice to you, I suggested that if you wanted to do charity, you should pick an organized group — not guys who have problems! It’s time for you to take that advice seriously.
If you want a boyfriend or a husband you have to look for a man who wants to be one of those things. If you look for a man who needs charity and can’t give you what you want, then it would be logical that you’ll end up hurt.
Get the book and read it. This is a great time of year to commit to turning your own behavior in a different direction, and for you — it’s finding a great boyfriend!
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