Behavior is a better indicator than words, and while your new guy [i]says[/i] he wants a serious relationship, he’s not acting like he’s ready for one. When you asked him to slow down, he quoted his experience in relationships — not his feelings about you. He’s not thinking about you and this relationship — just his own calendar for where he should be at what stage of any relationship. If he was really into you and this relationship, he would have apologized for rushing you and been happy to slow down because the relationship with you and getting to know you and your feelings about things would have been more important.
His comment about “then call me in two weeks” is crass, insensitive and disrespectful. It means he wants to see you when you want to have sex, but not before then.
Pay attention to this flashing red light and break your bad luck streak with men. Next!
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