Because you have a daughter and you live together, you need to ask him if he wants to stay together and if he does, why he cheated on you? You need to open the communication channel and start communicating more about what’s really going on between the two of you. You must have an idea of what needs of his are not getting met in the relationship and what your responsibility for them is. What are you willing to change?
His text is a cry for communication. Accept his not so graceful offer to communicate and talk to him about what he wants from you, from himself and from your family together.
That’s where you can start.
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