Well, since sunday, we started hanging out again. We have decided to remain friends, but we had sex a few times this week. He still acted like we were dating cause he was very clingy and kissed me a lot. However, yesterday, we met to go out to a dinner theatre together and he changed his behaviour once again. That’s when he told me that he didn’t want to have sex with me anymore and just wanted to be friends. I still have feelings for him so it hurt. Anyway, we went out to the bars after the dinner, with some friends. We danced all night, and while dancing, he kept pulling me towards him to grind. Eventually, by the end of the night, he kissed me. When this happened, I looked at him weird as it felt like he was leading me on. He apologized, but then we kissed again for the remainder of the song. He eventually walked me home and decided to stay over for the night. He said he didn’t want to have sex and wanted to sleep. He said he associates emotions with sex and that is the reason he doesn’t want to do it anymore. This morning, he got up and put his clothes on. Just before leaving, he cuddled with me for a few minutes before kissing me and leaving for the day. We got into another argument later because he didn’t want to spend time with me (I was sick and I asked him to hang with me and he said he didn’t want to cancel his plans). I feel as if he owes me cause I have cancelled my plans to be there for him a couple weeks ago, and I feel like he’s being inconsiderate when I need him. I also feel like he’s giving me mixed signals all the time. One day I feel like he likes me, and other days, it feels like he doesn’t. I’ve been feeling like he’s pulling away lately, but when I distance myself from him, he gets closer to me. He told me today he wanted some space. I’m sick and tired of being treated like crap. He’s there for me only when it’s convenient for him. I find him to be very selfish and I’m seriously starting to think that he’s an emotional abuser. What do you think?
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