As you probably know from reading my advice, I’m not a big fan of feminism because I think it’s given women and men bad advice and created a lot of confusion and failing or failed relationships as a result. Feminism tends to ignore what men (and women) are really about. It ignores the fact that men really want to win women over. Men WANT to chase; they WANT to capture and win women; they want to be providers and have their women appreciate and need them. They don’t want to feel like they’re not good at something or are not needed — and if they do, I guarantee you they’ll find a woman who does make them feel that way because when you take these opportunities away from men, they don’t get to behave authentically, and you end up dealing with their resultant derivative behavior, which then confuses everyone, and sends relationships into failure.
Read the book,[url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] and if you still disagree with me, let me know how things go as you pay half of your dates and treat men like equals — maybe I’ll learn something from you! 😉
