It would have helped to have known your ages, 😳 but based on what you’re writing, I’m guessing you’re both in your late 20s or 30s. And if your relationship is flagging after two years of dating, and has been for the last six months, it sure sounds to me like it’s dying a painful death.
If he’s proposed to you, and you’ve said no, then I don’t understand why you’re staying in the relationship. You mentioned that you’re scared that he could walk away so easily, but it sounds like that isn’t the case at all, from what you’ve written. He seems to have stuck it out in spite of your refusal to marry him or live with him. Now he’s beyond discouraged.
Whatever kept you from agreeing to marry him is probably the reason you should move on. Eventually, one of you is going to provoke a fight that will cause the final break up, but you can avoid that drama if you accept that this isn’t working and it’s time for you both to move on and find your respective Mr. and Ms. Rights. 🙁
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