[Sarajuana]

This is interesting to me, because I personally am very attracted to women. I sometimes feel like a sex-hungry man practically breaking my neck to check out a nice female’s behind. I have never been with a woman, besides making out with one or two, but have always wanted to try. I guess I’d consider myself “bi-curious.” With that said, I know that I prefer men and am very much in love with my boyfriend of over a year. Your post attracted me, because I was always open with him about how I thought certain women were hot, and he always seemed to be a bit insecure about it. We even got into an argument once about me spending the night at my best friends house, because she is a bit of a firecracker when she is drinking. He thought she would persuade me to have sex with her.

Honestly, I believe this is just an insecurity on your part. If you like this woman enough, then you need to learn to trust that what she is telling you is true. I think it took my boyfriend quite awhile to finally say, ‘hey, she is with me and I love her so we can go from there.’ Worrying about it is understandable, but if it’s something you think you will worry about constantly then it’s probably time to move on, and stop wasting her time and yours like April says. It’s not fair to both of you. I finally had to tell my boyfriend that I would not stop seeing my best friend, whom I’ve known much longer than him, just because he is worried about something so silly. I am an honest person, and when I tell him I will be faithful, I mean it. Hopefully your girl is honest, too, and if you have doubts then you should decide how long you want to live with those doubts.