I don’t want to screw up her relationship, but from the way she acts it seems as if she doesn’t like her boyfriend much. Likewise, I don’t want to screw up our friendship. Don’t get me wrong, I would love to take our friendship to the next level, but I don’t want her to think I’m forcing anything on her. I assume by “butt out of her life” you mean I shouldn’t even talk to her any more. Do you think it’s wrong for me to pursue her if she says she really isn’t happy with her boyfriend? Do you really think the best thing for me to do is to completely stop talking to her?