littleitaly716The fact that she has baggage doesn’t scare me. But it does affect me in the sense that I really think it’s affecting her and her outlook on a real relationship. I believe there is big part of her that does not want to allow herself to get attached to someone, let her walls down, and be vulnerable again. I’m looking forward to meeting her family because they will be able to tell I am a sincere genuine guy, which will hopefully justify what she already knows about me, but maybe is not 100% sure.
The fact that she is still actively using her match.com profile has me uneasy, I won’t lie. I want to be 100% up front and ask her about it soooo bad. But if I do I will come off as insecure and pressuring. The truth is I want to know why she is still actively using the site when:
she and I see each other constantly, spend several nights/wk together, she tells me she is not dating other people, nor is she looking too. She tells me things are going very well with her and I, the sexual chemistry is really good, she’s comfortable around me and starting to trust me more. The irony is I deleted my match.com profile 2-3 months ago… and if my profile was still ACTIVE now, she would totally accuse me of dating or looking to date other women!!!! yet it’s perfectly fine for her to still be actively on there??? double standard right? This is probably not the right time to ask her about this since we are going away next Wed to her family cottage for 5 day vacation where I will meet her family. I guess my question how long should I wait before asking her about this??? and what’s the best way to go about it without seeming insecure, needy and pressuring???? Thanks April
