its not that I dont like your answer, I was just confused about conflicting statements vs what she is actually doing. If you judge her by her actions with me, plus the fact that she tells me she is not dating anyone else or looking to date anyone else, you’d conclude that she would NOT be active on a dating site. I’m the one that made the mistake of deleting my online dating profile 2 months ago. I should have kept it active until I knew for sure she wanted to be serious. Like you said, dating is a numbers game, and that might be exactly what she is doing right now with me being #1 on her depth chart – FOR NOW lol. You say it’s fair for her to keep her options open…welllllllll when she told me a few months ago she didn’t want anything serious but at the same time didn’t want me dating other women … does that sound fair?????
No one is perfect and one of my flaws is I tend to overthink and overanalyze peoples actions or words, especially women. When I’m into a girl and want to be with her, I let her know with my words and my actions. Maybe that’s a mistake but it’s too late to correct that now. So my mindset with her profile still active on match.com is to not worry about it until there is something to worry about ( Ex.. her behavior changes, contacting me less, too busy to see me all of a sudden) and basically just be myself and go with the flow. I like your answers…I need female unbiased perspective!!!! : )
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