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[quote=”April Masini”]Since you’re not really sure why he broke up with you, it’s going to be difficult to try and be the girlfriend he wants. 😕 When couples break up, and one person wants to get back together again, it’s always a good idea for them to try and address the reason for the break up. But if you aren’t sure why he broke up with you, the best you can do is to be the girlfriend you think he wants…. be fun, flirty, interesting, attractive — and see where that takes you.

Also, understand that if you were dating for just two months, it’s possible that he decided in that get to know you amount of time, that you just weren’t his cup of tea. That happens. It doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. It just means he didn’t think you were the one. Rejection is a drag, but it’s also a gift because it shows you which doors are closed — and which ones are open. It’s always healthy to avoid the doors that are closed, and look for those that are open. If he’s just not that into you, this might be just the opportunity you need to move on. 😉[/quote]
He said to my face when he was breaking up with me, he wanted to clarify, that I was “perfect” and “one of the most amazing girls he’s ever met”. Like okay, he said it was all on him and I’m certain he meant it. If I wasn’t his type or right for him then I don’t see why he’d lie and claim that. It’s not that he wasn’t telling me the real reason for breaking up with me, it’s just that he said so much at once that I’ve completely confused myself. I know that the main reason he broke up with me is because he’s having some mental issues that he doesn’t want to talk about. But the reason I said I don’t know is because I think he was using the “I haven’t seen you much recently” thing because he didn’t want to talk about whatever issues he’s been having with himself recently.

He doesn’t want to drag me along in the dirt while he deals with the “mental issues” he’s been having.