I don’t think there’s anything wrong with your asking her questions to get a better idea of what went wrong. I’m not sure how receptive she’ll be since she may not view this is advantageous for her, and she may not want to spend the time on this, but there’s no real harm in giving it a try since the relationship appears to be coming to an end anyway. 😳 It’s always important to figure out why you choose the people you do when dating so that you can learn and evolve. Learning about yourself through dating is a measure of your success and will lead you to the doorstep of Ms. Right.
You’re right that sleeping together too soon is a problem because it clouds your judgment. The first three months of dating should be devoted to figuring out if this is someone you want to commit your time and energy to. Most people don’t take this dating period seriously, but it’s crucial.
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