AnonymousThere was never any mention of no contact from him or me, so I don’t know if I should try talking to him or not. He had walked past me a few hours afterward, and I wanted so badly to talk to him but didn’t know if I should. One friend, a male friend, told me I should wait a day or so before trying to talk to him because he feels hurt and angry right now. Yet a female friend told me that if I see him to say hi or something.
I know I need to work on my trust issues,and I am. I know in my heart, without a doubt, this relationship can be salvaged, if he only gave me the chance to explain and he’ll see how much I do trust him and care about him..things between us would be so much better. We were so great together and I know it can be that way again. At the time he was breaking up with me, seemed no matter what I said he had made up his mind not willing to work through it, so does that mean there’s no way of trying to fix it?
I just don’t know what to do. I’m so confused because people tell me different things. I just know that if he gave us another chance things would be as they were in the beginning – happy, loving and carefree, but how and when do I try to reach out and attempt a reconciliation?…and more importantly, WHAT do I say, HOW do I say it ? Or do I wait for him to come to me since he was the one who wanted to end it? If wait too long, it may be too late, I don’t know.
Help? ><
