You’re getting lost in semantics — along with the rest of the country! People seem to think oral sex is not real sex and cheating is, well, never mind — the bottom line is that she is stepping out and exploring another relationship with a guy who is interested in her as more than a friend. You’re right that she could have ignored his request to meet; not engaged in drunk texting; and been open with you about this meeting — and she didn’t. Whether or not it’s cheating, she’s definitely looking outside of the relationship.
Rather than focusing on this guy, look at the real problem: why is she interested in someone who isn’t you? 😯 What’s going on in YOUR relationship with her that isn’t working for her.
I’m not sure how old you are, she is, or the other guy is and how long the two of you have been dating or the nature of the long distance relationship, but instead of blaming her for cheating, understand that the relationship she has with you is in jeopardy. Do you want to save it? If so, look at where things aren’t working and what you can do to change them.
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