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Re: Its been 3 weeks but I STILL feel like I need a closure?

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He gave you closure already. He told you he liked another girl better and he hasn’t been in touch with you in three weeks. That’s closure.

Maybe what you’re [i]really[/i] hoping for is an apology or a reason that he started liking someone else more than you. But the truth is that since you only met him in February and it’s just March now, he doesn’t really owe you an apology.

The truth is that people change their minds and decide that maybe someone isn’t right for them. The real gift in this scenario that I hope you’ll consider is that when someone rejects you, he’s doing you a favor. Why would you want to waste time with someone who wasn’t into you? You wouldn’t! So by saving you time he’s doing you a favor. Not everyone is going to think you’re the one — and you’re not going to think every guy who likes you is worth spending your time with either. It’s just the way things work.

I hope that by digesting that information, you’ll be able to realize it’s time for you to look for another guy — who’s interested in you!

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and I hope you’ll follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 😀

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