I think it’s time to tell her what you saw and ask her for clarification. It sounds like an innocent explanation is that she did have a relationship with him BEFORE the two of you dated and didn’t tell you everything about it because she didn’t want to hurt your feelings. But now that you’re so interested in knowing the whole truth and nothing but the truth 😆 it’s important for her to be completely honest with you so you don’t drive yourself crazy wondering.
Sometimes men — or women — have a hard time understanding that their girlfriends have had lives before they came into the picture. It’s understandable that you want to be the only man she’s ever been with, but it isn’t realistic. She probably senses this. What’s important to discern is that she didn’t cheat on you during your relationship. If you can get some answers and make sense of the fact that people bring baggage to their relationships, you’ll find yourself some peace.
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