[HoneyBurst61]

Hi! I’m the ORIGINAL poster of this thread but couldn’t remember my password and I’ve changed ISP since registering so not sure what email address I used to recover my password.

I am REVISITING this thread almost one year later to give the following update…

[b][u]***UPDATE***[/u][/b]

After breaking up with her in April 2010, about two weeks ago I received a call from my next door neighbor who asked me if I was home? It seems that my “EX” was in the neighbors living room and “wants to talk to me”. I met her outside and she immediately begins questioning me with “who are you seeing now”? 😯

I told her that “whether I was seeing anyone or not was none of her business since she walked out on me when I needed her the most”! She then went on to make visual descriptions of several women who have “stayed” with me over the months since we broke up, she also told me other personal information that she would not have been privy to? When I asked her how she knew these things all she said was “don’t worry about it”! Exactly why I am worrying about it… my ex doesn’t just live around the corner she’s in another State completely!

I think I have a stalker and have reported this to the authorities, she went on to threaten me by phone a few days later and even had some guy (who she said is her fiance) threaten to “kill me”… both are obviously idiots since they left the threats on my voice mail, calling from her phone. 🙄 This past Friday night I was enjoying some female company while my car alarm kept going off, and kept going off. My car was parked around the corner from my house and not in my line of sight… when I went out Saturday morning to check things out I found a shirt stuffed into the tail pipe of the car. This would have been bad had it not been daylight, not seeing a black shirt stuffed into the tail pipe of a black car could have had disastrous effects if I had gotten in and started driving. I’m pretty sure I know who did it but unfortunately without a visual identification “guessing” who did it doesn’t count!

The night she showed up I was able to tell her this… “No matter how many times you’ve broken my heart, no matter how many times you lied to me and didn’t keep you word… so many times I couldn’t begin to count! But, no matter what I never stopped loving you and hoping you would get the help you need so badly”.

After we split up I went through the usual “missing the person and all we had together” but then I moved on and began dating again… nothing serious, just seeing a handful of women, after being hurt as badly as my ex hurt me I’m just not “ready” for any kind of LTR at this point, but I’m just not sure what to do about the ex?
I mean we have a court date and under no circumstance should I tolerate her stalking me as she has admitted to (she even told my next door neighbor this who is now a witness), but even after all this time has past, and I have begun new intimate relationships, I still see the love in her eyes when I looked at her that night! Arrgghh!

I know, I know, she’s nuts and I should move forward with the legal proceedings against her… I can’t help how my heart feels though and that’s the thing that hurts the most.

HoneyBurst61 aka HoneyBurst60