Hi April … thank you so much for the response. I think there is a lot of truth in what you are saying.
Here is the current situation…. my “love” has been out of the country for about 1 month visiting her family. During that time she contacted me twice, IMed me twice… to which I sent a brief Hi back. She will be returning from her trip by this weekend, it would be 16 days since I last heard from her. She has been out of the country before to visit her family but during that time we stayed in touch everyday. This time it is different.
Given what has happened, what should I do if she sends me an email, messages me, or calls me? How should I respond? Do I take it casually as nothing has happened and see what happens? I don’t think confronting her makes sense if this is her way of telling me that she wants her space, I’m more then happy to give it to her. What do you think? I want her to be happy and will be more then happy to step aside if she doesn’t feel it for me. She can also tell me she loves me and this doesn’t mean anything. I guess you know by now who the real love striken person is here, 🙂.
Thanks again.
