It would be great if you could think of yourself as a hero and not a coward. Staying in a marriage for the sake of your children is not cowardly. It’s actually very heroic.
Clearly, you made a mistake in marrying your wife, and then having four children with her, but now that you have….it’s time to change your attitude and stop being a victim. You don’t have to live a lie. Accept that you made a mistake, but now that you have children, you’re going to devote your life to making the best of what you have.
If you see yourself as a victim, you’ll be one. If you see yourself as a hero, you’ll walk that walk and be one.
I really hope that helps, and that you can turn your attitude around. Let me know how it goes, and follow me @AskAprilcom (no dot!) as well as on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].
