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Re: Living A Lonely Life…

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womenknowledge
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Hows it going bro.? I do understand the struggle you’re going through and I believe things will get better if you focus on what really important in your life. I’m not hear to blame you about what you went through and still going through, but you need to realize that you have a life to live and it might be time to move on. Some of the mistakes that most men make is not expressing their true feeling to a girl they are in love with. You said you guys were just friends and you never tell her that you wanted more than just friendship. A woman wants you tell her what you want her to be when you first meet her. Always tell them whether you want to be friends or you are looking for more than just friendship that way it’s up to her to accept it as friendship or more than friendship.
I don’t want this ruin your life and future because you have a bigger, better future ahead of you. She rejected you and that shouldn’t be sign that she doesn’t like but because you started with her as friends and you never make clear what is it that you wanted from her. It’s painful to love someone but don’t get same in return. My friend my interpretation of rejection is, maybe this isn’t the person that God wants you to establish a relationship with, and there maybe someone out there who will love you and appreciate you the most. Please don’t waste all your energy, time, and effort falling in love with some who is not even around anymore.
My advice to you is to focus what really important to you such as your goals, dreams and aspirations. When you have a vision, you will be motivated and focus on what really important. I’m not saying having a girlfriend is not important, but at this time of your life, you need to focus your gifts and talents and everything else will follow.
Women love guys who are going after a dream and focus.
Instead of being depressed over this issue, find some of your friends, the people you respect and trust and just go out and have some fun. Associate with the outside world a bit and leave the house for some refreshment.
Have fun with your life and don’t let anyone hold you back. You make you happy not others. Meditation can help you stay focus as well and also calm you because it works for me. Hope this will help and remember never give up.

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