My advice is no, don’t bring up the fact that you’re going on the pill because it doesn’t seem like it’s come up in the relationship yet. The last thing you want to do is push him into sex. If he wants to have sex with you, he’ll steer the relationship in that direction. The other reason why you shouldn’t bring it up, is that if you really care about him, you’re going to send him into a world of worry knowing that you’re newly on the pill just as he’s leaving to join the military.
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