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Re: Long Distance Relationship Advice

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Your photos are lovely — thank you for sharing them!! 😀

Sadly, I think she’s right that it’s better for you to go your separate ways while you are still so fond of each other, allowing the reason for the break up to be distance. If you try to make a long distance relationship work when she’s asked twice to break it off because it’s too hard for her, you’re going to end up fighting and have an ugly ending.

Ironically, it’s harder to break up when you’re both on good terms. A fight is always an easier way to walk away from someone, but I’m encouraging you to do the harder thing because there is a chance you’ll find each other again in a year or two or three when you’re more independent and adults, and it may be a lot easier to reconnect at that time if you’ve left things on a sweet, if sad, note.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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