Thank you for the extra information. Now that I know you’re both relatively young, it doesn’t make sense to have a relationship where you only meet annually. 😕 If you were older I’d expect you would have more resources at your disposal and you’d be able to fly to meet her more often, or fly her to meet you, but I’m guessing that you’re either in college or newly employed and just starting your career.
Meeting dates online is great, 😀 but the internet should be[i] limited[/i] in it’s use as a meeting tool. You shouldn’t conduct your entire relationship online because the reality is that people have needs for in person companionship, affection and socializing. As it turns out, she’s been seeing guys in her real life — as you both should be doing — and because you’ve invested so much of your social life exclusively online, you don’t have the resources to meet her social needs, and you’re feeling jealous.
My advice is that you date women in your real life, and if you meet them online, before you invest your time and emotions, choose those that live in your zip code or telephone area code. That way you’ll avoid this kind of heartache.
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