I think you just need to talk to her, period. I think the most gentle way of going about it would be to sit down with her and tell her how much she means to you, BUT being physically intimate is something very important to you. Let her know you do enjoy when you have sex, you just wish it were a bit more often. She may not realize how important it is to you, and if you bring it to her attention then she will think about it more often. Maybe ask her what kind of things turn her on, and explore those things more often. I’m having issues with my boyfriend not being as intimate as I’d like him to be, and I have tried talking to him about it. We are about to have a baby, so I think he’s going through some things that maybe I don’t understand. But either way, it is affecting our relationship. I feel for ya, and the first thing you should always do is discuss it openly and honestly and then go from there. I’m no expert, but I hope it helps. Good luck to you!
