[Anonymous]

No no, sorry let me clear up some confusion. I never contacted her. The contact part: I was overwhelmed with everything in my life including our relationship and the fights, so I kinda pulled a disappearing act, meaning not answering her messages, not calling her back, not contacting her etc. One day she called after a while of this and she asked what happened, and while I didn’t initially bring it up when she called, she kept asking so I finally told her I wanted to be single and told her reasons why I couldn’t contact her or answer her contacts…life was rough, so…

Then after I tried to give her an explanation WHY I wanted to break up with her and let her know she wasn’t gentle enough with me. I’m really sensitive and am having a rough time right now with school, my emotions, my parents and dependence on them. I felt inadequate and told her she had issues and that she hurt me because she has said horrible things to me during fights. All in all, I gave her the reason why I wanted to be single, and she cried yes, but she didn’t argue my points and when I asked her if we could be friends she said YES! That’s the thing…she said YES…I asked her to call me every week. I was expecting a call the next week and never got one. several months has passed and I have heard nothing from her, and she blocked me on Facebook. Mind you, last we spoke, we ended on good terms, she said we could be friends and speak every week and that was that….so why is it that she has disappeared now?