I’m 30 and my biological clock is ticking extremely loud. Yes, we do live together and I do have a ring. The reason that I haven’t rushed a date was exactly for this situation. I guess that I will have to draw the line with what type of relationship he has with the children (and her). While I won’t say that he can never see and talk to the kids (as the oldest one sees him as a father figure), he will have to limit it to special occasions and not be a daily/weekly/monthly thing, and if can’t respect that – as hard as it may be – I will need to let him go. I appreciate your advice….I have a lot of thinking to do. Thanks again!
