Well, I’m certainly very glad that went so well for you. Thank you for sharing more about YOUR past which makes the picture more clear. Your fear of finding out something disturbing or angering someone who’s trying to cover up a truth by exposing it – by simply asking about it, is understandable. But the only way to heal yourself from this old scar is to continue to face your fears and be afraid, but don’t let that fear stop you from doing the right thing. In this case, the right thing was to ask your girlfriend the questions you had about her life — even though you were afraid she might unleash anger on you or lie further. What you got was an open and honest answer without anger or blame – in fact it sounds like she appreciated your concerns and met your more than halfway in making an adjustment to make the relationship a more positive one.
Nice work!!
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