I’m curious if the bills are split 50/50 or is he the main provider of the two roommates? The two of you are not engaged correct? So there’s no promise of a future together? Is the man you chose to put your hopes and dream into not underdtanding enough, compassionate enough to hear you out and work on a compromise? Perhaps you can trust your choice in a man and communicate with him your concerns.
Aprils’s solutions are great ideas!!! I use paper plates when my boyfriend “visits” me. I have visited him as well and have seen him in his environment and he is a tidy man. I think I chose wisely.
