You’re welcome for the input. Remember that you came to me because you said your life was a mess. Read your first post. You admitted that you’d made it a mess. Well, you can neaten it up and give your life order by behaving orderly in your relationships. Make priorities and adhere to them. It has to do with discipline and knowing that not everything is supposed to feel good. When you married, I trust you took vows that said “for better and for worse.” Well, that’s because it’s understood that there will be good times and bad times in marriage and in people, themselves.
I know you now understand that your feelings and your behavior are two entirely different things and it’s understandable and okay to feel badly, but it’s not acceptable to behave badly. You can’t take back what you did, but you can start doing good deeds to make yourself feel better about life. I’d suggest being a super great wife and supporter of your husband, but don’t stop there. Help others who are in need and go out of your way to do the right thing — and beyond.
I hope that helps you get through this rough time. You will do it, but you have to understand it’s not always going to be comfortable.
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