It’s not wrong to have the feelings you’re having. Love can be complicated, but behavior is not. Just because you have a feeling doesn’t mean you have to act on it. Lots of people have love for old flames — especially first loves — but it doesn’t mean they don’t go on to have long term, successful relationships and marriages with other people. You can have feelings for the ex-boyfriend, but if you recognize that your current boyfriend is Mr. Right, then treat him that way. Have your feelings, but keep them private.
I hope that helps.
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