The best way to get over him is to start dating again! A cat and internet service aren’t going to get you out of the house and into new social situations where men are! 😕 Read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you understand how to get a man — and keep him. There’s also a section on WHERE to meet men.
I’m not sure why you aren’t eating right — you just have to make a decision to keep good food in your house, and eat regularly! There’s a chapter on that in the book, too.
Decide you want to get healthy and meet new men, one of whom may be Mr. Right, and then DO IT! 😀
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