It sounds like your friend is going through some personal upset that started when she met her biological mother, and she’s acting out on her feelings. She’s dumped you for some reason that doesn’t make sense to you, and there’s no way you’re going to get inside her head and figure out or fix whatever it is that’s bothering her.
The best thing you can do is to protect yourself and try to move on. When a friend dumps you it’s just like being dumped by a boyfriend, even though the relationship was different. The bottom line is that you still had a relationship with her, albeit a friendship.
Instead of pining for the five year friendship that seems to be over for now, my advice is to foster and nurture the friendships you have with people who are there for you and who want to be with you. Life is full of curve balls, so play the game the best you can with what you’ve got — in this case, your resilience and other healthy people in your life.
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