Come on, now. You’re too smart to buy your own bologna! 😕 If you’ve tried so hard to be faithful (your words), then why on earth would you start up an affair with a random guy on the internet? 😯
If you’ve got children from two marriages and your life is perfect (how many people are lucky enough that they can really say that?!), then don’t screw it up further. Accept responsibility for your choices and raise your children without creating any more drama in their lives. If you didn’t have kids, it would be different, but it’s unfair of you to make choices that affect them negatively.
Understand the real reasons that you married your husband and work harder at the relationship you’re in. The stakes are too high for you to blow it because you’re bored. There are others involved here. Man up and dig deeper to find the best in your husband, your marriage and yourself.
I hope that helps, and that you let me know how things go. Until then, I’ll see you @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at [url][/url].
