Your now ex-boyfriend clearly did not want a commitment. Short of taking out a neon sign to announce this, he couldn’t be more clear. You’re imposing your own values on him and that’s the mistake you’re making. Just because you would behave certain ways and do certain things does not mean anyone or everyone else would. And this guy is different than you — yet you keep wondering why he’s different. Forget why. Accept reality.
Your ex-boyfriend is not interested in committing to a woman right now, so he’s not perfect for you. Let that fantasy go. It doesn’t exist.
I hope that clears up your confusion! 🙂
Let me know how you’re doing — and join me on Facebook. Here’s that link: [url][/url].
