I’m sorry you’re sad. Your boyfriend has a girlfriend other than you — and that’s just the one that you know about. I’m thinking there may be other women, too. He’s never going to give her up. If he wanted to he would have already. He will continue to cry and see both of you and create drama.
My advice to you is to cut yourself off from him. He’s never going to make you his one and only girlfriend, and being his friend is never going to be enough for him. You’ll never feel safe or cherished with this guy — so find a man who WILL make you feel that way. As long as you’re encumbered with this guy, you’re not free to find someone else — or to be found!
It’s time to move on. I hope that helps. Let me know how things go. And join me on Twitter @AskAprilcom (no dot) and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url]. 🙂
