September will be 4 years for us, we have always had a wonderful relationship. We have always communicated with each other about things openly..it wasnt until after he started working so much that things went down this path…his part time job is at a mini mart and that is where he got this number from…plus she always goes in there and there is absolutely nothing him or I can do about it. I have tried to get him to quit this part time job but he says that we need the extra money right now. We are about 9 years apart. I am 22 and he is 30…so you would think he would be ready to settle down wouldnt you? Yes there is quite a gap in our age…but we just click, we are right for each other, and my family loves him as well as his family loves me. I mean he tells me all of the time that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and marry me. He has lead to me believe that I am his soulmate!! It does hurt, very badly, and when he thinks the subject is done and over with I have still not talked about it enough to get my head level. I just need to talk about it, I want him to be sorry and feel bad for what he has done, but I dont bring it up because I am scared it will cause a fight?? And by the way we not only have just our 5 month old son I also have a 5 year old daughter that is not his biologically, but she calls him “daddy” and he has taken care of her for the past 4 years, how would I ever explain another daddy walking out on her??…I want to fix things, and I want him to want to fix things also…I dont know what I would do without him?? I am just in a tough situation, and I am praying to God that this is the man that I will spend the rest of my life with…any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!
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