Without regard to your age, I always tell women to [b]NEVER[/b] make the first move. Men [u]want[/u] to be the ones who make the first move, [i]always[/i], so if you do try to kiss him, you’re taking that opportunity away from him! 😮 You’ll also have a better idea of his true feelings if you act like “the seductive woman” in the relationship instead of the over eager aggressor, so don’t YOU move in to kiss him first. If he makes a first move, then it’s his first move to have been made — not his reaction which could anything from a mercy kiss, a kiss because he can (he is a guy after all!) or a real kiss meant to convey affection.
Now, with regard to your age, it would help to know not just your age but his, too, so I hope you’ll let us all in on that secret! 😉 This is an anonymous forum so it’s good to be honest. You’ll get the best advice that way. 🙂
That said, if you DO really love him and care about him, then you won’t want to hurt him. And if he gets involved sexually (kissing counts) with an underage minor (if that’s what you are) he could be in a lot of trouble. Real love means doing the right thing for the other person — even sacrificing feelings. I know YOU want to disregard the law, but real love means taking care of the other person — not just yourself. 😀
I hope that helps with your confusion.
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