It sounds like you’re unsure of what you want, so you don’t know what to do. You talk about how she feels, but you don’t really say whether or not you’d like to date her. I know you used to think she was awesome, but now? Clearly, if you decide to date her, it’s going to be a little bit of a distance problem since she’s at school three hours away, but I can’t tell from your post if that’s a problem for you or not.
Let me know what YOU want, and I can try and help you get it. It’s pretty clear that she’s interested in your visiting, but that she may not be ready for a steady and solid relationship since you mention how busy she is.
I hope that helps.
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