Hello April and aammywammycammynd !! Thanks so much on the quick response. April I did ask her to marry me, and she said yes, NOW HERE IS WHERE I GET REALLY CONFUSED, the next day she gave the ring back and said she is not ready nor dhe is unsure if she ever wants to get married. She feels that having a child, is more of a commitment than marriage. Well needless to say that hurt!! lol I did happen to get a text message from her dad, it was one she sent to him… It said she should have said no from the beginning but she saw how much time and thought I put into it and did not want me to think she did not care or love him, and she is so blessed to have me in her life.
Amazingly enough my girlfriend dose not express or talk about her feelings. I always have to be the investigator and ask questions. I do feel I should have given her more space from the get go but hind sight is 20/20. I have no problem admitting I was 50% of the problem. I am giving her her space and see where it ends up. She has a 5 year old special needs son that I am a father like figure too, as well as a 13 year old son, so I am very ready to be a father again with a child of our own. Well wish me luck and thank you for the input!!!!
