Well in my case my ex did similar stuff contacted me or came to my parenting time but I found out through one of her friends she had cheated on me. I had pushed her so far ya she was moving on never to return and within a short time got into a new relationship. With your case she will do the same just remember who cares why she emailed you or this or that stick with the current facts she put a restraining order on you got you into trouble by helping you break it. You need to learn how to get over her although it will be hard mostly because you will have trouble finding another attractive girl as good as your ex. You will do it though if you put enough effort into it it will just take time and healing and make sure this new woman isn’t like the other you don’t need another restraining order on you it will impact your life to much which you don’t need. Learn to respect women and if something happens fights whatever just let it go. You can’t be worse off than me that had a 5 year relationship and 2 kids together and now I’m fighting a restraining order and custody battle its nightmare and I still havent found a new quality gf just dates. Just keep yourself busy and protect yourself we want it to be a happy ending for you. I know all you want to hear is she secretly wants you back but like I said everything she’s doing now proves she doesn’t give a heck about you in fact she enjoys being able to still manipulate you and be out there dating. You will never get what you want from her which is a happy relationship its already dead the damage has been done start fresh again I know it sucks but the sooner you start the better you need someone to care for you. So ignore her and stop trying to figure out every little thing which makes no difference of the outcome and get back out there in the dating world again best of luck.
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