It sounds like this guy hasn’t asked you out on a date, so I’m not sure why you’re upset. If he does ask you out, you can say no.
I think you’re reacting to gossip, and that’s never a winning game. 😕 Forget what everyone else says and does and just focus on your own life and your work at the office.
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