People use fantasy in order to avoid real life. You haven’t seen this guy in months (at least), so it’s not like you run into him and can’t help thinking about him because he’s part of your day to day life. You’re the one who keeps bringing him up in your brain — which is the only place you’re “seeing” him. Whatever it is about reality that keeps you in avoidance (whether it’s fear of being single or something else), it’s time to face that challenge.
My advice is to focus on real life. You’ll have a much happier time of things if you do. Read my book, Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you have a better idea of how to attract men in REAL life. 🙂 If you start focusing on the real men all around you, you’ll easily forget this fantasy man who’s literally not available.
I hope that helps. You can buy Think & Date Like A Man on the link above, or on the websites for Barnes & Noble and Amazon.
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