No, you should not go after him. I think you know that — but you just have to trust yourself. You say you don’t know if you “scared him off”, but seems like that might be the case — and it seems like you suspect that might be the case! 😕 Why are you doing that? You don’t have to! Because there is nothing wrong with a few days (it’s called anticipation) in-between contact when you are first dating someone. When he said he was going to have a busy week coming up, he was either telling you the truth or letting you down easy. You don’t know him well enough yet to know. When you didn’t hear from him for three days you called him, asked to call him the next day except he said he was busy with friends 🙄 , and then you called him the following day at a time that he told you to call. He wasn’t there. So now you are pursing him, not the other way around. And you are pissed at him. You kind of set it up so you get pissed because you extended yourself so much before you really know whether he is worth it. Plus, do you really want that outcome (he tells you to call him and isn’t there when you call and you get mad)?
You aren’t giving him a chance to pursue you. Not to be harsh, but he does not seem interested in pursuing the relationship now. But more to the point, you have to stop calling and texting him so you can see if he [b]is[/b] interested. 😯 Either way, (if he does or doesn’t contact you), you’ll know if he is interested. That’s a good thing. With little or no investment in anxiety, you’ll know. No, I don’t think you should go after him. You have been doing that and it hasn’t worked so far. It’s okay to let it go — be a little detached and curious and see what happens. If you don’t hear from him, then he’s not right for you. If that happens, it’s okay. Just take this info into the next dating situation.
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