It’s great to get such thoughtful posts. Please consider that the original poster, [b]Jerry[/b], claimed she had been abused and was made to do things like change jobs, buy a house, etc., and in her very next post to me showed the character of someone who was anything but a victim! She had no problem whatsoever telling me what I should and shouldn’t do, etc. I’m not sure that she is actually a victim of this man, as much as someone who wants to manipulate situations to make a man look like he’s abusing her.
I don’t know her, and I’m just going from her posts, but there isn’t enough here to make me think she’s as much as a victim as she wants us to think she is.