This isn’t infidelity — it’s you wanting a commitment from a woman who is not ready for a commitment. 😉 She’s only been divorced for one year now, so she’s playing the field. And she’s not completely done with her ex-husband, since it sounds like she’s still involved with him as well, as their marriage winds down. Divorce is a legal transaction, but the heart is not as rigid as the law. She’s working a lot out, emotionally and socially — and this is very frustrating for you! Since you know she’s got all these other men giving her attention, and she’s also crashing your dates — it’s your choice whether or not to continue dating someone who’s not ready to settle down and wants to flirt, date and maybe even sleep with other people until she’s ready for another commitment, whenever that is. I know this is tough for you because you want her to want what you want — but she doesn’t. So….. while it’s wonderful that she’s enchanting and charming and all those other good things we look for in a date, you need more You need someone who’s compatible with you in terms of lifestyle and commitment level. She’s not. 😳 My advice is that you move on and find someone who’s ready for what you’re ready for — a commitment. I hope that helps.
